The two brothers decided the lesson their children needed to
learn most was waiting.
When you travel, you must never burden yourself so as to be
free to react to any situation in the most economic and safest way. Children
are rarely given important tasks so that they are free to run when danger
arises.
However, if a child runs and runs and runs, his family may
never find them again.
The first brother said “I will scare your child and force
him to move.”
The second brother said “I will wait for them to come to me
or find them.”
Both brothers were unsure how to communicate this to the
children without alerting them to the trial they prepared for them.
The second brother said, “I will tell your child to come
find me if there is danger and you are not around.”
The first brother agreed that it was a good plan and would
do the same with the same his brother’s child.
The next morning, all of them went hunting in the woods. The
children were told to keep a look out for deer or rabbit and to pick any
berries they were certain were not poisonous.
Both children agreed it would be a fun adventure and
promised to listen closely to their fathers’ words and heed their commands
without question.
“Uncle,” the first child said, “Where will we find the deer
and rabbits?”
The Uncle muttered something about paying attention to the
surroundings and not to fret over deer or rabbit yet to reveal themselves.
“We will find them where they are,” The Father said.
As they wandered the woods, it was decided to cover more
ground they would split up. Each child would go with their Uncle and both
parties walked parallel to each other, but out of sight.
“If we are separated, you must return to the spot where we
parted company and wait. Under no exception except a threat to your life should
you leave this spot.”
After a time, both Uncles told the children to wait here
“While I look for deer tracks.”
Hours passed as the children waited. Alone, scared and
starting to get cold, they were forced to decide whether to remain waiting for
their Uncle or look for their Father at the meeting place.
The first child was too scared to move.
The second child ran as fast as he could to the spot they
had chosen.
The second child found his father waiting for him.
“It is good you waited just long enough and then came to me.
Where is your cousin?”
The second child said he did not look for his cousin and did
not know where he was.
“You left your cousin in the forest? You should have looked
for him first as he is the one in our party who needs the most guidance. Return
to where you were and find him. I will wait here and send your
Uncle after you
when he returns here.”
The child was afraid to go back in the woods alone, but he
understood if both he and his father left the clearing, no one would remain to
tell his Uncle that his child was lost.
The small one puffed up his chest and headed back into the
woods.
He wasn’t looking long before he found his Uncle. He found
his Uncle was very angry.
“You left my son in the woods to save your own skin? That is
a great shame upon you and I will not travel with a child who would leave mine
to die. Find my son or return to your father, I go my own way now.”
The child was confused and scared. He wanted to look for his
cousin with his Uncle and he did not want to return to his Father to report
such a horrible failure. He puffed his chest out again and returned to the last
spot he was set to wait at. Then he began to make bird calls as he walked in
slow, concentric circles.
The second child heard a bird getting closer and closer. He
wasn’t afraid of birds so he decided to walk towards the sound and ask the bird
where his family was.
The two children met in no time by calling out and answering
with a bird call they each knew. Even their Uncle and Father couldn’t tell
where they were. They began to get worried and also decided to ask the bird if
he’d seen their children.
All were pleased to meet each other in an empty clearing and
the Brothers concluded they had done a good thing, whether they meant to or
not, because everyone had learned the value of patience and coordination.
They resolved to teach this lesson to each successive
generation.